tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post4367585611190716064..comments2024-03-02T02:31:48.043-08:00Comments on phi s t y l e: Status: Living Togetherphi-stylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03023752953405278661noreply@blogger.comBlogger39125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-15794815511644327392009-05-24T01:23:43.785-07:002009-05-24T01:23:43.785-07:00Um. Ok. This is ridiculous, but apparently the G...Um. Ok. This is ridiculous, but apparently the Grey's finale was TWO EPISODES. This is what happens when you fall so far behind! You might watch part 2 before part 1! Whyyyyy.alo514https://www.blogger.com/profile/11547306808641327230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-48790489500231485762009-05-24T01:10:36.136-07:002009-05-24T01:10:36.136-07:00TRAM. OMG. I just watched Grey's. I got CHILLS....TRAM. OMG. I just watched Grey's. I got CHILLS. An actual physical reaction. I was too shocked to cry. And I didn't cry at the last episode bc I was chatting w/ you. lol. Seriously though, O.M.G.alo514https://www.blogger.com/profile/11547306808641327230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-20482865830944213932009-05-23T14:07:07.506-07:002009-05-23T14:07:07.506-07:00you've been JINXED
-chris
FASHIONJINX.BLOGSPOT.C...you've been JINXED<br /><br />-chris<br /><br />FASHIONJINX.BLOGSPOT.COM<br />FASHIONJINX.BLOGSPOT.COM<br />FASHIONJINX.BLOGSPOT.COM<br />FASHIONJINX.BLOGSPOT.COM<br />FASHIONJINX.BLOGSPOT.COM<br />FASHIONJINX.BLOGSPOT.COMJINXhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09859176038156455119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-46297360470080879352009-05-23T05:36:45.247-07:002009-05-23T05:36:45.247-07:00Hey! Love your outfit!! Jasna xxxHey! Love your outfit!! Jasna xxxFashionJazzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00457165623177651239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-87761861440812930742009-05-21T17:27:15.087-07:002009-05-21T17:27:15.087-07:00WOW! how glamorous!!! love how you can see the bra...WOW! how glamorous!!! love how you can see the bra on the sides. ♥<br /><br />xxx<br />thesydneygirl.comThe Sydney Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05632424319102691161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-54339791779299922292009-05-21T10:30:56.224-07:002009-05-21T10:30:56.224-07:00I made a call-out to my love (and quite possibly n...I made a call-out to my love (and quite possibly new obsession) of your lipstick / lipgloss. Still on the hunt!stephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16394056577879594144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-12459137792103033292009-05-20T19:54:07.122-07:002009-05-20T19:54:07.122-07:00love this look!love this look!Behind The Seamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11661868798518524411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-30244077322714362242009-05-20T17:45:45.562-07:002009-05-20T17:45:45.562-07:00my fiance & i have to go through the same thin...my fiance & i have to go through the same thing. we r still debating if we should even have a church ceremony or a ceremony at the reception site. we would like to have it at a church but i want to have a condensed version of it & not sure if we will be able to find a priest / church ok with that... anyway love the silk pants! i love silk !Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13299303409746731718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-75824591379950843472009-05-20T17:20:17.089-07:002009-05-20T17:20:17.089-07:00LOVE your silk pants! And can't believe the church...LOVE your silk pants! And can't believe the church would have 'living together' as an acceptable status, haha! :) <br />xxBrigadeirohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10003424305424367126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-60519550676748612852009-05-20T17:01:27.995-07:002009-05-20T17:01:27.995-07:00Btw, these are some intense conversations. That's...Btw, these are some intense conversations. That's great that everyone is open and respectful of everyone's opinions, whether we're all on the same page or not. Kudos to everyone.stephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16394056577879594144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-38438408349380273102009-05-20T16:58:56.519-07:002009-05-20T16:58:56.519-07:00Where do I go to buy NYX? I always see people hav...Where do I go to buy NYX? I always see people have it, but never know where they sell it! I'm going to the store today to buy every single red/berry shade possible, lol. I adore your look!stephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16394056577879594144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-62499333798441305612009-05-20T16:18:17.207-07:002009-05-20T16:18:17.207-07:00you are absolutely adorable!
and I feel you on ...you are absolutely adorable! <br /><br />and I feel you on the way you view Catholicism...everyone tells me I am more religious than I think. I refuse to go to church because I don't pay attention anyway, amongst other things I am a "sinner" for. But...if I do go to mass (for a wedding or funeral lol), I won't get communion because I haven't been to confession...i just kinda do weird stuff like that. <br /><br />:)Planetalfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06689263140635583988noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-26856917350950193602009-05-20T14:13:04.810-07:002009-05-20T14:13:04.810-07:00i really wanted to get married at st. anne's cuz i...i really wanted to get married at st. anne's cuz i went to elementary and middle school there, but i had to get married on a certain date and i thought it was retarded that i'd have to wait 6 months to be a member before i could even request a date that they may not have!! plus, the parish secretary was being a complete bitch. i was so pissed. it made me feel really annoyed that i had to jump thru hoops just to frikkin get married!!! she was like asking me all these questions about where i lived and how i shouldn't even be qualified to be a parish member because i wasn't in their zones or whatever. what are they, an exclusive club or something??? so MAD!!!!!!! ugh.<br /><br />anyway, im not telling you to lie but maybe a little white lie won't hurt. even tho priests are not supposed to judge you (GOD IS THE ONLY JUDGE) they are only human and you know that they do. just my opinion. this is why i hate going to confession. their 'penance' that they give you varies depending on how nice/understanding the priest is. why should they pass their judgment and their penance on you when only God can?maichellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04940237401804771331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-25726423426664737432009-05-20T13:47:45.216-07:002009-05-20T13:47:45.216-07:00ha ha, that reminds me of when my fiance and I ini...ha ha, that reminds me of when my fiance and I initially got engaged. He said I was allowed to do anything concerning the wedding but his only request was to be married in a church. Just the registration form alone made him so nervous and he felt guilty about his whole life (we've been living together for the past couple years...among other things). Guess he didn't want to face his "sins" - now we're getting married on a golf course, lol(JIN) Love, Loss & Lacquerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14607039290011077293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-37819502173947889782009-05-20T13:43:42.651-07:002009-05-20T13:43:42.651-07:00I love this outfit...you are gorgeous!
I totally ...I love this outfit...you are gorgeous!<br /><br />I totally agree with you on the office/grey's. It's funny, I thought the same thing when I realized she was prob preggo!!!Alinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05116049562780969241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-33057274672329578112009-05-20T13:29:36.410-07:002009-05-20T13:29:36.410-07:00I agree with you your reasoning regarding 1, 2, an...I agree with you your reasoning regarding 1, 2, and 3.<br />Here are my shares:<br /><br />1) Actually, if you don’t know, no priest holds any personal right to not accept or approve your marriage application whether or not he likes it or not. I have tons of friends who live together, had children and decide to get married and the priests at the church where these couples were/are married are well aware of it. I must say American priests are much more laid back and understanding than some old school Vietnamese priests. <br />2)If you are catholic and whether or not your finance is catholic and he will or will not convert, I think the priest will make you go through what called confession because during the wedding ceremony you will also be receiving communion and therefore you have to confess your sin. Trust me; the priest will be okay with it, if you decide to tell him about it then that’s fine too. It’s not a big deal.<br /><br />3)If I have anything related to moral issue that I need advice, I will come to the priest for advice because he is more knowledgeable than I, but at the end of the day, its the relationship between God and I that I care about, I know that the priest know if he condenms me after hearing my dark secret, he owe God an explaination, and least deep down he knows that.<br /><br /><br />4)After all, whether or not you tell the priest, it is okay, he doesn’t know, but God knows, it’s more of the matter of the kind of relationship you have with God.<br /><br />5)I am too catholic, and one of my big obstacles to overcome with my current relationship is the religious issue, and I am still not sure where it will head. I was born and raised catholic, I wouldn’t say I am the most devout catholic, I did lots bad things, and I sin like everyone else too. <br /><br /><br />6)I try to attend weekly service simply because I find it beneficial for myself. The words and wisdom that I learn helps me to be humble and less selfish and therefore I feel more up-lifted. I agree with most of the teaching simply because the message I learn from God is much deeper than words can describe. I don't think my belief is valid and other's are not and or my God is better because GOD IS ONE though understood by different peoples in different views or terms. I don't try to come off as lecturing impose my belief on anyone; these are only words to share my view.<br /><br />7)I think you can even have an outdoor wedding with a catholic priest to preside the nuptial; however I am sure that there will be additional papers required to get permission from the church. Close minded Vietnamese priests will not like this idea, but it can be done. Though you will still have to go to the marriage prep classes at church. I’ve heard the classes at American Catholic Church are much more laid back, and do not prolong for classes months like at most Vietnamese Catholic Church. It seems like Vietnamese are so formality and sets up lots of their own rule. This I don’t like. Most churches will want the couple to have 4 to 6 months waiting period before you get married simply because they want to make sure they couple are ready for marriage.<br /><br />8)You’re having a church wedding to please your parents, if you parents only cares about having a catholic priest to preside your wedding, just FYI even a catholic destination wedding is possible; you just have to talk to the priest to find out what are your options and what you need to do in order to have the wedding of your dream, and still make it right under the eyes of your parents if the catholic way is the only way to go to please themAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-8236330821522900692009-05-20T10:43:02.003-07:002009-05-20T10:43:02.003-07:00Anonymous -
Thanks for the comment. I totally wel...Anonymous -<br /><br />Thanks for the comment. I totally welcome any sort of constructive feedback (whether on fashion or religion), especially when it spurs discussion.<br /><br />1. I agree that God is about love, understanding, and not judging. However, as you pointed out, the priest has his own will to act as he will, even if he has no right to do so. At the end of the day, the priest CAN choose to judge me since the priest IS human. He can violate God's law all day long.<br /><br />2. I agree that priests are human. See response #1.<br /><br />3. I believe that my father can walk me down the aisle, have my fiance wait for me at the end, with beautiful flowers, decoration and songs, with my loved ones surrounding me, AND in the presence of God and priest, without having the ceremony in a church.<br /><br />However, I do love my parents and I know this is important to them, which is why I chose to be married in the church. THIS is the reason why I believe I did the right thing.phi-stylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03023752953405278661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-85998877405194785682009-05-20T09:59:57.109-07:002009-05-20T09:59:57.109-07:00r u getting married at sacred heart? thought i rea...r u getting married at sacred heart? thought i read in one of the comments that u were. we were married there. r u doing the vietnamese mass? we did our classes there too. yeah. sucked.maichellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04940237401804771331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-92096207813042584422009-05-20T08:55:03.966-07:002009-05-20T08:55:03.966-07:00I am so contemplating on whether or not I should l...I am so contemplating on whether or not I should leave this comment.<br /><br />1) I think you should have been honest on the application. God is about loving, caring,sharing and giving. God does not judge you or anyoneno therefore priest has no right to judge you or deny your application. If the priest judges you, he violate God's law. <br /><br />2)When I come to a priest or a monk for advice, I would be 100% honest with them because they are just like me, human being and not living God.<br /><br />3) You will find that every religion teaches us to practice love. But it is a previlage to be getting married in a church, your father walks you down, your groom is waiting for you, beautiful flowers, decoration, beautiful songs, friends and family waiting to welcome you. It's very magical, you will declare your love and committment to your life long partner in front of God, spiritual leader (priest), and your loved ones that this is the man you vow to be with through thick and thin. You did the right thing, congrats on the wedding plan.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-65192763166588336632009-05-19T22:05:35.703-07:002009-05-19T22:05:35.703-07:00Don't worry girl....I've been living in si...Don't worry girl....I've been living in sin, too *gasp....*<br /><br />Congratulations on your engagement! It's going to be a lot of fun planning it! <br /><br />Btw, love love love your & tattoo. I'm too chicken sh*t to get any tattoo...so I'll just sit here & admire yours ;)Fashion Is Poisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12535507089580248962noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-32368386822809132592009-05-19T21:34:25.488-07:002009-05-19T21:34:25.488-07:00The MAC 187 brush? Do you mean the Duo Fibre one? ...The MAC 187 brush? Do you mean the Duo Fibre one? Unfortunately my ass is broke so I can't shell out that much for one item lol. <br /><br />Right now I'm on the search for a good liquid foundation, too. What one do you use? Since you did mention the airbrush effect, I was considering getting the Maybelline Dream Liquid Mousse because of the reviews and the fact that people say it's known to create the same effect as the brush.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-83637523009792590332009-05-19T21:11:32.378-07:002009-05-19T21:11:32.378-07:00Hot and so cool outfit! Beautiful hair as always!
...Hot and so cool outfit! Beautiful hair as always!<br />Hanh,<br /><br />www.life-in-travel.blogspot.comHanh, Life-in-Travelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18440590830845940594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-80224041999067810202009-05-19T21:07:29.851-07:002009-05-19T21:07:29.851-07:00love this outfit! i thought it was a jumpsuit at f...love this outfit! i thought it was a jumpsuit at first, but to know that it's not makes this outfit even more chic! (not that i don't like jumpsuits, its just that you made it look like it...but not :P)<br /><br />and congrats on the engagment! i love "love" :)Norahttp://fashiongeometry.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-32494622039241854652009-05-19T21:02:36.006-07:002009-05-19T21:02:36.006-07:00I'm more of a LOST fan. But I really need to catch...I'm more of a LOST fan. But I really need to catch up on my office too. <br /><br />I think I'm going to order those f21 silk pants...looks great on you.Brook and Lynhttp://brookandlyn.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5618410804092788134.post-83445632058657774052009-05-19T20:38:58.630-07:002009-05-19T20:38:58.630-07:00If we had to get married in a church, I probably w...If we had to get married in a church, I probably would have did the same thing.<br /><br />Both of our families are devoted Catholics but they didn't force us to have a church wedding. What's weird was my bridesmaids wanted us to get married in a church because it was "the right thing to do" or "it's better for your marriage". They freaked out when I said we were getting married in Vegas. It wasn't like we were getting married in a drive-in chapel with Elvis.<br /><br />We had a fab wedding at the Bellagio and didn't regret it one bit. The food and flowers were top-notch which is what we really cared about. At the end, it's your day and you should do whatever makes the two of you happy.<br /><br />Congrats!FoodieFinderhttp://foodiefinder.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.com